Thursday
Night
July
6th, 1944
Dearest Ken;
Mother and Daddy met me over in San Francisco during
my lunch hour, and after we ate we took a walk back to 101 Grove and from there
on we parted—the train was supposed to leave from the Ferry Building at four so
by now the folks are on their way back home. Time certainly went fast when they
were here.
Contrary to what I had thought, Dad is the one who
is persuading me to come home next fall to live, not my Mother. She understands
how much I like it out here and how happy I’m getting over being just a few
hundred miles nearer to you. As I have told you before, Dad feels that I have
been very foolish to live out here where it costs more than if I lived at home,
and this going to has been a stupid idea, because people who go to college lose
their initiative, their ability to get along with common people, and ultimately
their perspective in life. Furthermore, if I come home, I can have any type of
a city job I want, through family affiliation and through his interceding. On
the other hand, I tried to explain what I felt I wanted to do, but didn’t get
very far so I gave up and said nothing for fear of hurting my Mother. In view
of the fact that Anderson didn’t even employ Public Health Nurses and the
Health Officer himself is only part-time (Dr. Conrad), I’m sure that I’d get no
training in generalized work of the type I wish. To be cont’d.
I
love you more, Berna Lou